about me

Psychologist and health & wellness coach

Lara Adams

For over a decade, I practiced as a Counselling Psychologist in the United States, where my husband, our two children, and our chocolate Labrador built a full and meaningful life together. In 2024, we made the challenging—and deeply rewarding—decision to return home to Cape Town.

During my years in private practice, I had the privilege of walking alongside many women through important and often vulnerable seasons of their lives. Again and again, I saw the profound connection between physical health, emotional wellbeing, and the broader pressures women carry—particularly for those in their mid-30s to mid-50s. Women were navigating demanding careers, raising families, managing relationships, caring for others, and trying to make thoughtful decisions about their health and wellbeing in a world filled with constant information and expectations.

Over time it became clear that many of the struggles women faced—perfectionism, burnout, parenting pressures, anxiety, hormonal changes, low energy, poor sleep, body image concerns, and the constant tension between work and family life—were not separate challenges. They were deeply interconnected. Beneath them often lay something even more fundamental: overwhelm, competing demands on time and energy, and a growing distance from what truly mattered.

What I also came to realise is that this was not only something I witnessed in my work with clients. It was something I had experienced personally. Like many of the women I work with, I have felt the weight of trying to do it all. I have been caught in the noise of expectations, comparison, and the pressure to perform. There have been seasons of deep exhaustion and burnout where the way forward felt unclear. I know firsthand how easy it is to lose sight of what truly matters amidst the demands of modern life.

Learning to step back from that noise—to rediscover stillness, clarity, and what truly matters for myself and my family—has been profoundly life-changing. It is not always easy to swim upstream or to choose a path that feels different from the expectations around us. But it can lead to a deeper sense of peace, purpose, and alignment with the life we truly want to live.

This realisation led me to pursue formal certification in Health and Wellness Coaching, allowing me to expand my work in a way that integrates psychology, behaviour change, and sustainable wellbeing. My approach draws on my training in Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), mindfulness-based approaches, intuitive eating, trauma-informed care, and Positive Discipline education.

Today, from my hometown of Cape Town, my practice focuses on supporting women through a psychologically informed coaching approach. I work primarily with women in midlife who are navigating the complex demands of modern life—helping them step back from the noise, reconnect with what truly matters to them, and build habits and rhythms that support their wellbeing.

My work is grounded in science and guided by compassion. It focuses on helping women reduce overwhelm, move beyond perfectionism, navigate hormonal transitions, and cultivate greater clarity, energy, and balance in their lives.

My hope is to help women step back from the noise of modern life and reconnect with what truly matters to them. When we create space for stillness and reflection, clarity begins to emerge. From that place, women can make decisions that honour their values, care for their wellbeing, and build lives that feel deeply meaningful and authentically their own.